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The Need For Divine Change - Multitudes are without God, without Christ, without hope in the world. That is the way Paul speaks of them. That distinction is there throughout the Bible - not just here - but here the Holy Spirit directs the apostle to focus on this distinction. Those who are in the flesh: that is who are unregenerate, who are not born of God, who not in Christ.
Let Marriage Be Held In Honour Among All - The Bible is telling us: Let marriage always be thought of as precious. Let it be treasured like gold and silver and rare jewels. Let it be revered and respected like the noblest, most virtuous person you have ever known.
Parable of the Vine and the Branches, John 15:5 - Many are called to become leaders, assisting others in their spiritual journey. Spiritual leaders - clergy or lay, seek to meet the needs of people in their own congregations or communities of faith. But spiritual leaders have unique and often overlooked needs of their own.
Confidence In Prayer - Are you tired of praying and not getting results in your prayer life? If so, you probably need to examine your confidence level in this area. A lack of confidence in prayer simply comes from not knowing God's Word. Too many Christians pray emotional, fear-based prayers, hoping that they get through to God.
While the Scriptures take the marriage covenant very seriously, they permit divorce and remarriage in some situations. To learn exactly what these circumstances are, we will begin with the Old Testament regulations of divorce and remarriage. Then we will consider the words of Jesus on this subject. And finally, we will look at the instructions given by the apostle Paul.
Deuteronomy 24:1-4 tells us that when a man finds "some uncleanness" in his wife, divorces her, and they both marry new mates, they cannot ever undo this new marriage to remarry each other.
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Of course, while this may have been the rabbinical consensus, it certainly does not reflect the biblical view of marriage! The rabbinical schools of Christ's day were often wrong in their interpretation of the Old Testament. They made the Law into a works system for salvation and created loopholes by which clever people could get away with terrible wrongs. It appears that these Jewish scholars, all of whom prided themselves on their loyalty to Moses, were often out of tune with the deep spirituality of the Law.
In this cultural and religious context, the Lord's statement that people who divorced on lesser grounds committed adultery when they remarried was shocking. It even amazed the disciples, as evidenced by their response (Matthew 19:10). Jesus' teaching clearly ran contrary to the easy-going divorce and remarriage customs of His time. He declared that the only grounds for a valid divorce was porneia (sexual immorality -- Matthew 5:32), a term that encompassed a broad range of sexual sins. Later, Paul added another legitimate reason for divorce -- the willful desertion of a Christian by a non-Christian mate (1 Corinthians 7:15 ).
While the New Testament explicitly makes both sexual infidelity and desertion by an unbeliever grounds for a Christian's divorce and remarriage, it does not offer a detailed description of how a Christian should deal with an intolerable marital situation that does not involve either of these circumstances. It appears that Paul had such situations in mind when he wrote:
To the married I give this command (not I, but the Lord): A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife (1 Corinthians
To sum up, there is general agreement among evangelicals that apart from the death of a mate, the New Testament gives only two situations in which a marriage can be terminated with the right to remarry: illicit sexual activity, and abandonment by an unbelieving mate. There are no other rightful grounds. Although it may be necessary in some other situations for a Christian to separate from or divorce his or her mate, Scripture requires him or her to remain unmarried until reconciled. From the very beginning, God recognized the profound value of unconditional commitment between spouses in marriage. He mercifully provided a way out of relationships that have already been shattered by adultery and abandonment, but He never intended an "easy out."
1. This raises three questions:
a. What is the "uncleanness" that apparently gave the husband grounds to divorce his wife?
The meaning of the term "some uncleanness" is not clear. The expression is often translated "nakedness" or "something shameful." Basically, we do not know all that the term represented, but it must have been a serious matter short of adultery.
b. What is the reason for the restriction that they could never remarry each other?
No reason is given for the restrictions forbidding the remarriage of two people once they had entered a new marriage. It certainly would prevent a man from divorcing his wife and marrying another woman as an experiment, thinking he could obtain a second divorce and return to his first mate if he chose to do.
c. Why did the Law of Moses permit this disruption of a marriage?
Jesus Himself stated that the Mosaic law allowed divorce "because of the hardness" of men's hearts (Matthew 19:8). Because of the strongly patriarchal nature of ancient Israeli society, if a man disliked his wife for any reason, he had the power to make her life unbearable. He could marry other wives, treat them with respect and favouritism, and treat his first wife like a slave. If he did, she had no recourse other than to call upon the support of her family.
2. In Kittel's Theological Dictionary of the New Testament under the discussion of porneia, we are given evidence that even the strict school of Shammai believed it to be shameful for a divorced man to remain unmarried. Interestingly, according to Kittel, the
3. Since Jewish culture considered it shameful for a man to remain unmarried after either the death of a spouse or a divorce, divorced men of that time quickly married new mates, regardless of the circumstances of the divorce.
I pray that you have been blessed by this teaching message.